So Much Love

I woke up to a birthday song and greeting that made my heart melt.

The day was filled with lovely messages, hugs from my Summer School mates and a flood of Facebook greetings.

It ended with ice cream and smooth jazz music in a beautiful colonial building. Almost as if I was back in 1929.

Though miles from home, on a work trip, my life is filled with so much love. It has been 28 years of a blessed life.

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Days 107-108: OHana in Hanoi

The Oldham Hall family extends to Hanoi! I thank God for this extended family that we have been blessed with all over the world.
Thanks for taking me out and sharing your favourite local food with me.
Unfortunately the weather did not allow us to explore the streets, but I enjoyed chilling at the cafe with a view of the lake and the old quarter, over the famous Vietnamese iced coffee. Now let's hope I can sleep tonight.
Outfit of the day: reversible top and black pencil skirt.
Exotic local food

That's yesterday's outfit of my pink dress and black heels.

Our workshop organizers brought us to a rather kitschy cruise dinner last night. We shared the cruise with a Vietnamese family celebrating a birthday over hotpot n karaoke. We could hear everything from our dining area upstairs. They were clearly having fun. 



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Days 101-102

Last week was a busy week as we were hosting an international workshop in Singapore.
Dress from Gan Ann's sewing room, jacket from Bangkok, shoes from Tangs
Dress a hand me down, jacket from Bangkok 


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Day 106: Hanoi

Hello friends! I'm now in Hanoi. I'm here for a workshop for 2 weeks. I'll be eating, learning, hanging out with the same group of people for 24/7 the next 10 days. Hopefully, it will be a good time of learning. 
Sadly, I'm here alone, so there's no one to take my daily photo for me. At least, my room has a full length mirror. So we are just gonna have to live with the poor lighting.
Today's outfit was in anticipation of being cooped up in an economy class seat, as well as the heat of the Hanoi summer- top from Sisley, and jeans from Mango. Good choices, if I may say so myself :) 
P.s. let me know if you have any good recommendations for hanoi or sapa. Or if you are here, let's meet up!
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100 Days of a Different Outfit Everyday

We have reached a milestone. 100 days of wearing different outfit everyday. Many of my clothes finally got to see the light of day because of this challenge. I also came to terms with the fact that some clothes, no matter how pretty they are, and the memories we have shared, will no longer be part of my ensembles. And I have given them away to bring joy to others. Most of all, the challenge has shown me how greatly blessed beyond measure I am. 
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Catching up on Different Outfit Everyday: Days 95, 96 and 99


We were so excited about getting the keys to our home on day 99 that we forgot to take my outfit post. This was the only pic I got. But it was good enough since our house keys are the hottest accessory.


Just to catch up, here are the outfit pics from the public holidays
Purple flora dress from bag of goodies from day 95
Day 96: The day I became a pizza delivery girl. In my "eat me!" singlet and yellow shorts.
We were helping our friend's mom who owns a pizza delivery place on National day. It seems pizzas are a popular accompaniment to the parade so orders came in fast and furious. I apologies if anyone had substandard pizzas on that day. We were "massaging" stretching dough till my arms ached. I also got a chance to do a delivery run with my friend's dad. It was pretty fun presenting people with their pizzas and facing confused looks as I was not in the usual uniform. Lol

We were rewarded at the end of the day with a delicious pizza that's not on the menu. If it were, I'd order it ALL the time.
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Hello! Can I Help?

I got out of bed before the sun rose on National Day and drove to a nondescript industrial building in the Potong Pasir area. I was a little apprehensive as I stepped out of my car. But I pushed my uncertainties aside as I took the old industrial lift up to the 4th floor.

As the heavy doors trundled open, the buzz of activity was palpable. I was at the right place. Welcome to Willing Hearts Soup Kitchen. A 100% volunteer-based organisation which feeds about 3000 people 365 days a year. 

I was told that there is no roster system so I should just show up and pitch in wherever needs help. 

Upon entering the premises, wasn't quite sure what to do with myself, so I just went up to the first person I saw and said, "Hello! Can I help?" with what I hoped was as much of a dazzling smile as I could muster.

I was immediately put to work packing buns into individual plastic bags. Soon several other helpers gathered around and the task was completed swiftly.

I then wandered further into the kitchen and discovered that the place was huge and there was an army of volunteers chopping vegetables, frying eggs, cooking curry, washing ingredients and boiling rice. There was such a spirit of joy as everyone was working together for a common cause.

Another friendly "Hello! Can I help?", and I was put to work peeling onions. But not before the Aunty insisted that I had rubbed my lips with salt, which she said prevented one from tearing while peeling onions. It was a humbling yet enjoyable experience as I worked with a student, a housewife, a wrinkled old Aunty and an urban professional to peel sacks of onions. Most of us still ended up with a bucket of tears, but the Aunty seemed immune. We must have been doing it all wrong.

As the food deliveries went out, I asked if they needed help. Uncle Tony said they had enough delivery help for the day, but he asked if I could go "love an old lady". He called the lady, and got me to take down her address, then passed me a packet of food, a box of biscuits and sent me on my way. I wasn't sure what I had gotten myself into. But a few minutes later, I was at a block of 2 room flats. I was first greeted with the smell of damp and urine then the sight of a cluttered messy place. 

"Hello?" I called. I heard a response from inside and an old lady hunched over came shuffling out. She apologized profusely for the mess and for taking a long time to get to the door as her body just didn't allow her to move any faster. She then invited me in. I ended up staying for almost an hour. 

I said a silent prayer and asked for wisdom and the words to encourage this lady, as I listened to her pour out her tales of her history and her ailments. I wanted so much to help, but I didn't know how. So I did what I knew. Before I left, I offered to pray for her, which she graciously accepted. And I trust that our loving Heavenly Father will hold her close and give her sufficient grace. 

I thank God for organizations like Willing Hearts that reach out in practical ways to those in need around us. In a society with so much, nobody should have to go hungry.

Extending a hand could be as simple as a willing heart and a  "Hello! Can I help?"





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